Sunday, January 30, 2011

A Walk On The Beach, Hard Lessons in Commitment

We had a nice, sunny weekend for beach walks and picture-taking.


The neighborhood

The sea




Jellyfish

On the less sunny side of things, I discussed the topic of leaving early with the Torps tonight. I'd been anxious about bringing it up, not only because I would be cutting in half a commitment I'd willfully signed up for, but also because this particular family has already had two unpleasant experiences while trying to arrange an au pair. I can't excuse my flakiness, but the lesson to take away here is to not underestimate the importance of being near family while arranging overseas work contracts. Not a great one to learn the hard way, but what's done is done.

Friday, January 28, 2011

Virtual Tour

The new digs on Hovgårds Alle are a far cry from the lifestyle to which I've become accustomed. The luxuries of my former residences peaked at a train tracks adjacent cookie-cutter townhouse (washer/dryer included, patio, nice kitchen) and the seediest place I've ever lived was a roach- and rat-infested 12 foot trailer home on the edge of a mangrove swamp (no running water). Most of the rest have been tolerable 'student income' type rooms. I'd settled into my Seoul apartment, my first post-graduation home, pretty well by the time I left, and I miss the easily cleaned bathroom (toilet, washing machine and shower head in an undivided tile room with a central drain).

My Danish home leaves them all in the dust. A sparsely decorated, dignified Scandinavian 2-floor house with five bedrooms, two-and-a-half bathrooms, a huge living room and very modern, well supplied kitchen, it's much more akin to living with my parents than anywhere else I've stayed. Or, my Chilean semester-abroad host family's lovely home.

The mentality is similar, as well: not exactly 'employed,' as my work is that of a domestic servant, though not completely listless either, I feel a lot like I do when I go home to my parents' for holidays or other intervals. TurboDansk, the Danish language school, should help alleviate my restlessness.

I received my CPR (central population registry?) number today, and am now an official member of the community. This has unlocked the majority of my to-do list:

-Get library card
-Get bank account
-Get insured
-Start TurboDansk

The first task is actually half-complete. I've registered with the Royal Library system, but I won't be able to check out material until I get my health insurance card in the mail (10-12 days from January 26th). Incidentally, this will be my second national health insurance card after Korea's. I've checked their resources online- plenty of Vonnegut, Proulx, and the new Krakauer book. They don't have any Tony Millionaire, though. Nobody's perfect.

















Sunday, January 23, 2011

Adventures In Babysitting

On my journey homeward from Seoul, Korea to Oostburg, Wisconsin, I met a girl at a yoga ashram in Rishikesh, India. We were chatting about travel and I mentioned that I would be heading to Denmark eventually. She explained that she'd lived just outside of Copenhagen for a year, working as an au pair for a lovely family. I said I'd always been interested in the au pair idea, and she replied that her former family might be in the market for a new one. A few weeks, a dozen facebook messages and one in-person meeting later I was invited into the home of Jonas, Charlotte, Emily, Willads and Conrad. My responsibilities as a part of the household include hanging out with the kids, vacuuming and tidying daily, and other chores. The kids seem to be pleased to have someone to draw/foam-swordfight/run around with, and I'm happy to be back around the curious mischief of children again. Charlotte and Jonas lead interesting, professional lives and provide a wealth of relaxed openness and good conversation. And their vacuum cleaner runs like a dream.

Before this I was an English teacher in Seoul. I haven't been actively looking for jobs involving kids; they've just fallen into my lap. I'll be here for a year tops, then it's on to the next thing. I don't expect it to be a thrill a minute, but looking back at my old blogs, it's nice to reminisce. Plus, I have plenty of time on my hands.

So, soon, I'll post a basic outline of my new digs and some impressions. Among them:
Running again
Bikes abounding
The ease (and guilt) of English
Food
Friends
How I pass the hours

Stay tuned.