Monday, April 4, 2011

Shake 'Em Up, Shake 'Em

Jonas was tapped to be the new Special Advisor to the Secretary General of NATO. So that's happening. The hire has been in the works for a few weeks now, it turns out, but it was only made public last Friday. Jonas will move down ahead of the family, setting up shop in an apartment in May while Charlotte and the kids wait out the end of Emily's school year in June. I'll catch a May 25th Airbus back to Chicago.

It's exciting for everyone.

Marathon training crawls along. Jonas has done 21 kilometers, half of the big event, and is still standing. My longest run is still just 15k. Hopefully I'll get 21 under my belt this week in preparation for the half-marathon on the 17th.

The days are inconsistently getting nicer- a few sunny, warm ones sneaking in among the blustery cold. I have my sights set on Norway and Sweden before I ship back home in under two months. And once home, I have my eye on a Suzuki TU 250 motorcycle, the cost of which will have me agonizing over every expenditure between now and when I make it mine.

Thursday, March 10, 2011

Slow Goings

I always start blogs under the impression that I'll have frequent posts about exciting endeavors. That was certainly the case for my first blog, when I studied abroad in Chile during college. And chronicling my pan-continental trip home from Korea to the States was relatively uptempo, with dispatches from different countries weekly. But the records of my year in Korea, valuable though they are to me now, never quite leapt off the page.

I'm finding the same to be true for my Danish adventures.

It's a good life, to be sure, familial and warm, and nowhere near as lonesome as Korea could be. A full house of yelling kids and conversational parents is a far cry from a shoebox apartment in a pulsing metropolis of ten million (Denmark's entire population is roughly half that). I find the weeks melding together into a glow of play-wrestling and hugs, dinners, jokes and "how was your day"s. It's easy here.

With that ease comes little inclination to set down in writing my day-to-day activities. But I know even the most mundane details can be useful, if only as a comfort to my future self. So I'll strive to record, and hopefully make even remotely entertaining, bits and pieces of my Danish life.

I spent a week in Dresden and Prague a while back. The kids had a holiday from school, so Charlotte and Jonas sent them packing to their grandparents' in Herning. I caught a flight to Berlin a bus from there south to The Florence on the Elbe. Dresden, the beautiful seat of what is now the Free State of Saxony, was ravaged late in WWII by Allied boming, an event at the center of Kurt Vonnegut's "Slaughterhouse Five." The winkingly semi-autobiographical science-fiction novel uses Vonnegut's characteristic awkwardness to create an unforgivingly honest and humiliating "war story." Vonnegut novels nudged me, reluctant and fumbling, through high school and then some; a quiet reminder that someone else was questioning society's eagerness to overlook its inhumanity. With the site of one of his most popular works so close, I was excited to see it for myself, and hopefully be imbued with some of the sentiments that struck the young writer during the course of his imprisonment in the city during the war.

It wasn't necessarily a fulfilling journey. I couldn't say I knew exactly what I hoped to get out of my visit there, some revelation or epiphany, but there were none of those. I did not consider, in a fairly glaring oversight, that, of course, almost none of the things I would see there would even have existed at the time of Vonnegut's confinement. The beautiful architecture he saw was reduced to rubble before he left. The eponymous Slaughterhouse Five, his ersatz prison, and its surrounding meat-packing complex have since been rebuilt into a convention center. Churches have been rebuilt in their former images. The river Elbe remains.

But I had an entirely enjoyable visit. I made friends with local students by using an internet "couch surfing" website, ate phenomenal Saxon food, visited wonderful museums and toured a Volkswagon factory. The city seems to have been returned to its old splendor. It was certainly splendid enough for me.

In the middle of the week, I took a two-day trip south to Prague, only two hours away. The tight alleyways and smog-thick air were an unwelcome change from Dresden's open spaces and relatively few tourists, but the food and beer were good and cheap. So was the chamber music concert I saw at the Rudolfinium Auditorium. I met five Canadians on a vacation from studies in Copenhagen, and we exchanged phone numbers.

I returned to Dresden to finish the week, then spent the night before my flight home in Berlin, where I ate currywurst and saw the Brandenburg Gate for the second time.

This past Saturday I visited the library in Copenhagen and roasted two chickens for my Swedish friend Janni, her sister, her Norwegian boyfriend Lykken and their friend Kajsa. We hit the town after dinner, with interesting results. On Sunday I visited the Louisiana Museum of Modern Art to catch the final day of their Walton Ford exhibit, a sort of bizarro-Audobon series of life-size watercolors of animals being brutal to each other or being treated brutally. It was eerily fascinating. The museum campus itself is wonderful, a winding circuit of halls and rooms on the coast 30 minutes north of Copenhagen. Sweden is easily visible from the windows. They have an excellent cafe where I had a mushroom sandwich and a glass of beer. In the evening I visited Christiania for the first time to meet one of the Canadians from Prague at a music club. It was too loud for conversation and too smokey to stand, so I didn't stay long.

This week has been uneventful. I've been lazy with my running. Jonas and I have a 15k Sunday, after which I'll stop by Janni's birthday get together. I hope to have an exciting present for her, but promising ideas are not forthcoming so far.

Sunday, February 27, 2011

Wednesday, February 2, 2011

Marathon Man

Jonas asked me one day, half seriously, how I felt about running the Copenhagen marathon with him in May. Always game for an absurd challenge (and a little curious about marathons since my high school girlfriend finished Chicago's way back in 2004), I agreed, and we've been making slap-dash progress at it since. A good friend I made studying abroad in Chile, 2008, has also signed on for a marathon out in California, so this blog will now be taking on the added function of progress report for Laura. I'll try to install a little box on the margin with training updates.

At the moment, Jonas and I run 3k south down the main road through Solrød and back, a few nights a week. Once in a while we add a few hundred meters' sprint at the very end. I can feel myself making progress, but I can also feel that I'm resting on the laurels of that progress and getting a little lazy. I promise myself that once things warm up, I'll be out there more nights every week.

Otherwise, I'm not doing much. The only other exercise I get is riding the bike to and from the train station, a little over 3k each way, or into town to pick up the kids from daycare or school. The bike has been stuck in its highest gear for a month or so now, which must add a little cardiovascular oomph to the ride, and with the boys in the bike trailer behind, I must be earning some points.

Diet-wise, also nothing particular. My weight doesn't seem to be changing much. Of course, the current routine is the very tip of the iceberg compared to what I should be up to in, say, 4 more weeks.

I started on 11/24 with a kilometer and a half (a mile), and in 5 more runs had made it up to 5 km in about 29 minutes. Run 9 was 6 km in 41:23, but Jonas's and my fastest time for that is now down to 30:12. Last night was run 13, and I feel ready for the 10k Jonas and I intend to try on Sunday.

Sunday, January 30, 2011

A Walk On The Beach, Hard Lessons in Commitment

We had a nice, sunny weekend for beach walks and picture-taking.


The neighborhood

The sea




Jellyfish

On the less sunny side of things, I discussed the topic of leaving early with the Torps tonight. I'd been anxious about bringing it up, not only because I would be cutting in half a commitment I'd willfully signed up for, but also because this particular family has already had two unpleasant experiences while trying to arrange an au pair. I can't excuse my flakiness, but the lesson to take away here is to not underestimate the importance of being near family while arranging overseas work contracts. Not a great one to learn the hard way, but what's done is done.

Friday, January 28, 2011

Virtual Tour

The new digs on Hovgårds Alle are a far cry from the lifestyle to which I've become accustomed. The luxuries of my former residences peaked at a train tracks adjacent cookie-cutter townhouse (washer/dryer included, patio, nice kitchen) and the seediest place I've ever lived was a roach- and rat-infested 12 foot trailer home on the edge of a mangrove swamp (no running water). Most of the rest have been tolerable 'student income' type rooms. I'd settled into my Seoul apartment, my first post-graduation home, pretty well by the time I left, and I miss the easily cleaned bathroom (toilet, washing machine and shower head in an undivided tile room with a central drain).

My Danish home leaves them all in the dust. A sparsely decorated, dignified Scandinavian 2-floor house with five bedrooms, two-and-a-half bathrooms, a huge living room and very modern, well supplied kitchen, it's much more akin to living with my parents than anywhere else I've stayed. Or, my Chilean semester-abroad host family's lovely home.

The mentality is similar, as well: not exactly 'employed,' as my work is that of a domestic servant, though not completely listless either, I feel a lot like I do when I go home to my parents' for holidays or other intervals. TurboDansk, the Danish language school, should help alleviate my restlessness.

I received my CPR (central population registry?) number today, and am now an official member of the community. This has unlocked the majority of my to-do list:

-Get library card
-Get bank account
-Get insured
-Start TurboDansk

The first task is actually half-complete. I've registered with the Royal Library system, but I won't be able to check out material until I get my health insurance card in the mail (10-12 days from January 26th). Incidentally, this will be my second national health insurance card after Korea's. I've checked their resources online- plenty of Vonnegut, Proulx, and the new Krakauer book. They don't have any Tony Millionaire, though. Nobody's perfect.

















Sunday, January 23, 2011

Adventures In Babysitting

On my journey homeward from Seoul, Korea to Oostburg, Wisconsin, I met a girl at a yoga ashram in Rishikesh, India. We were chatting about travel and I mentioned that I would be heading to Denmark eventually. She explained that she'd lived just outside of Copenhagen for a year, working as an au pair for a lovely family. I said I'd always been interested in the au pair idea, and she replied that her former family might be in the market for a new one. A few weeks, a dozen facebook messages and one in-person meeting later I was invited into the home of Jonas, Charlotte, Emily, Willads and Conrad. My responsibilities as a part of the household include hanging out with the kids, vacuuming and tidying daily, and other chores. The kids seem to be pleased to have someone to draw/foam-swordfight/run around with, and I'm happy to be back around the curious mischief of children again. Charlotte and Jonas lead interesting, professional lives and provide a wealth of relaxed openness and good conversation. And their vacuum cleaner runs like a dream.

Before this I was an English teacher in Seoul. I haven't been actively looking for jobs involving kids; they've just fallen into my lap. I'll be here for a year tops, then it's on to the next thing. I don't expect it to be a thrill a minute, but looking back at my old blogs, it's nice to reminisce. Plus, I have plenty of time on my hands.

So, soon, I'll post a basic outline of my new digs and some impressions. Among them:
Running again
Bikes abounding
The ease (and guilt) of English
Food
Friends
How I pass the hours

Stay tuned.